Why do students come for counseling?
Students come for counseling for a variety of reasons. Some of these include:
- Difficulties adjusting to the University
Problems in relationships (Roommate, Dating, Family)
Suicidal thoughts
Depression
Anxiety
Coping with medical problems
Indecision
Anger
Abuse (Physical, Sexual, Emotional)
Self-injury behavior
Rape/Sexual Assault
Pregnancy
Eating disorder behavior
Self-esteem issues
Uncertainty with career goals
Lack of motivation in classes or schoolwork
Learning difficulties
Grief or loss
Guilt
Drug or Alcohol problems
This is by no means a comprehensive list, but it does give you a sense of the range of issues we address at the Counseling Center.
Counseling makes sense when you are having trouble coping with a stressful situation or solving a personal problem. It offers emotional support, new perspectives and help considering possible solutions, all within a Christian framework.
- How much does counseling cost?
- If I go for counseling does it mean there is something wrong with me?
- How do I get started?
- How long does counseling take?
- What if I am concerned about a friend or a roommate?
- What is my responsibility?
How much does counseling cost?
Counseling services are free to all enrolled students, faculty and staff.
If it is determined that the treatment intervention needs to involve services outside the scope of the Concordia Counseling Center, such as a psychiatric consultation, medication evaluation or specialty counseling (i.e. substance abuse), appropriate referrals will be made. The student is responsible for any costs associated with outside services.
If I go for counseling does it mean there is something wrong with me?
Of course not. For the most part, people who use our services are interested in their personal growth and adjustment to the world around them. Many students face normal developmental concerns and academic pressures while at Concordia, and, at times, they may feel acute anxiety, anger, sadness or depression. For these problems, as well as for more serious crises, it is helpful to gain the perspective of an unbiased person. The Counseling Center staff is trained to help you think about alternatives or options to your behavior and ways of dealing with life issues in the context of Christian principles, truths and values.
How do I get started?
Appointments can be arranged by calling (262) 243-4211 (Dave Enters) or (262) 243-4212 (Tracy Tuffey) or by visiting our offices located at Rincker 115 or 119. If you have questions about the Counseling Center or are uncertain about whether counseling is appropriate for you feel free to contact either Dave or Tracy with those questions.
How long does counseling take?
The length of counseling depends on the problems and the goals. Often, a situational problem or concern about a friend may require only one or two sessions. A more substantial crises or recurring problems in relationships usually take more time. We generally try to provide enough help for you to be able to make progress and move forward with the issues on your own, even if they are not fully resolved. In other words, we generally take a short-term, problem-oriented stance aimed at helping you manage the issues and move on.
What if I am concerned about a friend or a roommate?
It is not uncommon for someone to be concerned about a friend or a roommate. The Counseling Center offers consultation services to those who want to help another but are unsure about how best to do so.
What is my responsibility?
Your main responsibilities in counseling are to attend your regularly scheduled sessions, talk about what is bothering you as openly and honestly as you can, and complete any tasks or "homework" assignments you may be asked to do. You are to let your counselor know if you are unable to make it to a session. You are also expected to let your counselor know when your problems have been solved or if you don’t feel like you’re making any progress. This latter point is most important: your counselor is most interested in your benefiting from counseling.
